What if nobody loves you

 What if nobody loves you 

People seek validation from others. If nobody took care of them and loved them back, they felt a sense of incompleteness. Monks constantly have said this-"if nobody loves you, it's a blessing of God to you to continue the path of Bhakti Yog." After all, the process of bhakti is meant to bring about a transformation to you. God is only an eternal and unchanging force in this world. Bhakti Marga is a gradual process and takes years to attain the state of devotee. In Bhakti Marga, we call God, Sriman Narayana. He is within us and also takes on outer forms. The ultimate goal of life is to attain the Lotus Feet of Sriman Narayana, the supreme Lord. A person should understand that the world is temporary and this world only loves you for their desires to be fulfilled but God is eternal and he loves you for who you are in real from inside not pretend to be from outside on a superficial level. Seeking love, happiness, and attention is out of our control. People only want to grab attention because they want some love which they feel they get outside there. But actually, God resides inside us, if we look within then we can find love, happiness, and infinite silence and peace there.

Bhakti Marga helps us to cultivate a very deep and personal relationship with God. We can get to know more about God and about ourselves also from the scriptures, meditation, worship rituals and many more. You can choose any resource of Bhakti Marga and can make your own way of self-discovery. God loves you that's why you felt that nobody out there loves you. He is bringing storms and winds into your life so that you can connect with him and taste the Bhakti of God. A life filled with a sense of gratification can never serve you in the long run. The goals and worldviews of devotees are different. Your devotional practice reflects in all areas of your life.

Naturally, this fundamental truth also reflects on the married life of devotees. Family life can be mundane for other worldly people like the same wife, same children, etc. but devotees see family life as an ashrama and spiritual practices to be followed. Krishna's consciousness is the central theme for a householder. A person can bring purity, a good value system, habits and new goals into his life. In a world where lust is the primary force to act and accomplish goals, love is the driving force in the spiritual journey. 

"Love and Bhakti are directly proportional."

Thank you for reading this..!! 🙏 


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